My First ‘Model-Led’ Hen Party: A Journey into Life Modelling and Tutoring
Life modelling has been a big part of my career, but hosting my first ‘model-led’ hen party was a whole new adventure. Until then, I had always worked alongside a tutor who guided the group while I focused on posing. The thought of combining both roles—tutoring and modelling—was both exciting and nerve-wracking.
Here’s a peek into my experience and how it became the start of something wonderful.
How It All Began
When I was first asked to host a model-led hen party, I wasn’t sure what to expect. My previous work involved modelling while a tutor led the class. In those sessions, I simply followed their guidance, holding poses as they directed. It was straightforward, as my role was to pose confidently while they managed the teaching.
Taking on both roles meant I’d need to teach the group while posing. I agreed to give it a go, and the party was scheduled for a few weeks later. I decided to use the time to prepare.
Learning the Ropes
I was lucky to have several tutored hen parties lined up before my model-led event. During these, I observed the different styles tutors brought to the classes. Some treated the session like a formal art lesson, focusing on teaching technique. Others leaned into the fun, turning it into a relaxed, engaging activity.
I also read articles and guides on how to lead a class. The mix of research and hands-on observation gave me ideas for structuring the session. Since I’m not an artist myself, I decided to keep things light-hearted and fun. Activities like drawing with the non-dominant hand or without looking at the paper seemed like perfect icebreakers.
Still, as the day got closer, the nerves started kicking in.
The Big Day
The hen party was set in a stunning barn conversion nestled in the countryside. Finding the venue was tricky, but I always plan to arrive early, so I had time to spare even after a few wrong turns.
When I rang the bell, a young woman welcomed me and showed me to a private space where I could set up and get changed. She explained the group was finishing something and would call me through shortly.
I arranged the clipboards, paper, and pencils, making sure everything was ready. Finally, they invited me into the main room.
Meeting the Group
The room was spacious, with chairs set up in a circle. The bride-to-be, marrying a professional footballer, was surrounded by 18 of her closest friends. Their warm smiles and friendly chatter eased my nerves instantly.
Once everyone was settled, the bride removed my robe—a playful tradition in these classes—and we got started.
Kicking Things Off
I began with an activity designed to break the ice: drawing without looking at the paper. Setting a timer on my phone, I struck a simple pose and gave them a few minutes to sketch. The giggles started almost immediately as they peeked at each other’s efforts.
The atmosphere quickly became relaxed and cheerful, and I could see everyone was having fun. From there, we moved to other activities, including using non-dominant hands and timed gesture drawings. These quick sketches kept the energy high and the focus on having a good time rather than achieving perfect results.
What I Learned
Hosting the session was a challenge, but one I thoroughly enjoyed. Combining posing and tutoring required focus and flexibility. Balancing the technical aspects of drawing with keeping the group entertained took practice, but their enthusiasm made it easier.
The group’s laughter and encouragement boosted my confidence, and the hour flew by. It was bittersweet when the session ended, as we were all having so much fun.
Reflecting on the Experience
Looking back, I’m so glad I took the leap. Since that first session, I’ve hosted many model-led hen parties, and each one brings its own unique energy.
I’ve learned that preparation is key, but being adaptable is just as important. Not every group is the same, and reading the room helps me tailor the session to suit their vibe.
Although I still get nervous before each class, it’s always worth it once we get started. Watching people who may never have picked up a pencil before enjoy themselves and create something is incredibly rewarding.
Tips for Aspiring Model-Led Hosts
If you’re considering hosting your own model-led sessions, here are a few tips:
Prepare Fun Activities Keep it light-hearted with challenges like blind drawing or using the non-dominant hand. These activities lower the pressure and increase the fun.
- Observe and Learn: If you’ve worked with tutors before, watch how they structure their sessions. Take notes on what works and what doesn’t.
- Stay Organised: Arrive early to set up. Having everything ready gives you one less thing to worry about.
- Engage the Group: Friendly chatter and a relaxed attitude go a long way. If you’re enjoying yourself, the group will too.
- Trust Yourself: Nerves are normal, but don’t let them stop you. The more sessions you host, the more confident you’ll become.
Why I Love What I Do
Life modelling is more than just striking a pose. It’s about connection, creativity, and shared experiences. Hosting that first model-led hen party showed me a new side of the work—one where I could help others discover their creativity while having fun.
It’s been a rewarding journey, and I can’t wait to see where it takes me next. Whether you’re a seasoned model or just starting out, I hope my story inspires you to embrace new challenges. You never know what you might achieve.
That first hen party was a day to remember, and it marked the beginning of an exciting new chapter. If you’re thinking about joining a life modelling session, leading one, or simply trying something new, my advice is simple: go for it.
The joy, laughter, and creativity of those sessions are worth every ounce of nervous energy—and then some.
Read about my first life modelling experience here